Will you choose good guy or bad guy?

Recently come across a statement: "Only bad guys that gals will like." is it true? is it not true?

There are 2 guys here:
1. He is romantic, willing to steal the most expensive gems as a gift for you. He always said he love you. Always surprise you with rose & small gifts. Seen like he know what you need or what you want.

2. He is quiet. Dont know how to strike a conversation. Financially stable, but seldom praise you. He buy practical gifts for you but never buy any roses. Even at the valentine day. And you know his personality is good and he is a nice guy.

If you are a gal who will you choose as boyfriend and husband? Well, I did heard about one solution about this situation. Date with the first one and married the second one. You may laugh out loud. Is that true that gals only like bad guys? why? just because they know how to make gals happy? and only when bad things happen gals want to look for the good guy to married.
I dont know, if you date with a bad guy but yet how can you married a good guy? Since you never know the good guy.

Good guy may not know how to communicate with you. And seen like he dont really know you. But communication is not build on 30 seconds. but for a life journey. And it is not a single way traffic. It take 2 hands to crap. So if he dont start conversation why can't you start? Just because you are gals doesn't means you need to lock yourself at your house and let down your hair from the window and wait for the prince to climb up and save you. Even the gal do an action, lay down her hair from the window. And she didnt close the window but open it. You can choose to stay with the bad guys or choose to reach out to the good guy. And start to know him and find out the way to communicate with him. Then you will be able to married good guy at the end.

Who love you?

Who love me? I asked myself this question.
Well, when we look for a partner in live, what is the things we look for?
You may said "I love the guy because he driving a Merz, he is rich."
You may said "I love the gal because she is hot, she is sexy and pretty."
You may said "I love the guy becuase he is so intelligent, he is a lawyer."
You may said "I love the gal because she is very meek, and her look still quite ok."

Will you love me for who I am? Not the status I have. Not the position I have. Not because how much I earn. Not how good looking I am. Will someone just love me because who I am?


There are 2 friends:
1. He will do all things to help you, meet your needs. doesn't care how much you earn, how your look. Even willing to die for you because your mistake. Corrected you if needed. Give you a future, encourage you. Always be your side.
2. She will love you because you match what she want. You can provide for her life. You can protect her. You are smart. As long as you provide for her, she will be fine even you have sexual relationship with others gal.

So who love you more? He or she?
Is He stupid? Or He really love you? Is she right because there is no free lunch in this world?

What kind of love you want today?
If I can choose I will choose Him who love me for who I am. What about you?