Shall we dance?

Last monday I just join a party. Eating France food learning ballroom dancing. That is a wonderful experience. =)

As I learn the dance, I feel that relationship is like we dance. =)
We should united together for the challenge we will be facing as we holding each other hand. Keep a distance show the respect you have for each others. Guy's right hand as a sign that he should lift up and comfort the gal. When you start to move. Guy should direct the movement. When you want to turn and gal will follow. At the beginning it is difficult because both of us is counting our step and we lost focus to our partner. Wasn't it like we work too hard just to provide material things to our partner but yet we forgot about her. What should we focus on? Our step or our partner? It's also not easy for the gal to follow the guy's step either, it take time and effort to accomplish and build the "feel".

Why the guy must lead the step when to turn? Well, if the guy fail to do the leading, it will make the gal frustrate for they "need to" help the guy that they love, to meet what they expected the guy will accomplish and it often make both party frustrated. In order to let the gal we love can rest in our arm, we man should take up the responsibility to lead the family. And let the gal help us to achieve our destiny in life as a family.

It may be difficult at the beginning, but as much as you practice and build up the feel of it. It will become more and more smooth and you will be able to enjoy it. ;)

So shall we dance?