Friday, November 16, 2007

What is love?

As I search this string at Google.com, I found out there are over 2 million web pages about this question! But what really love is?

Some said it is a feeling. Some said it is a decision. But is that all? I feel that love is all about giving.

When you love someone:
1. you paid (give) attention to what he/she said
2. you give advise when he/she in trouble
3. you give her roses or gift to keep her happy
4. you spend (give) your time to talk over phone with her whole night.
5. you will do what you had promise (give your words)
6. you willing to have sex with him (give him your body) in order to keep him beside you
7. you willing to give your life to him / her

Love is all about "giving". But when love is about "getting", that's not love anymore. If he or she try to get something from you, be careful and think twice before you give him or her. Like a guy ask his girl friend to have sex with him before marriage. What he want is just your body. He didn't give respect to you, but just want to get from you. So be wise, if he don't protect you at least you must protect yourself girl. I heard another joke about love, when a woman ask her husband "do you love me?" that means she going to ask her husband to buy something expensive for her. But is this really love? NO!!! That's just selfish! So beware of the wolf with sheep clothing.

You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving. If you have someone you love, start by "giving" him / her today.