Monday, October 22, 2007

What should I do?

When everything seen wrong, in your career, relationship with others. Seen like everything you did, just doesn't work out. Everyone seen like against you, even the one you love, they can't understand you, they don't appreciate what you have done. What will you do?

What went wrong? What's wrong with me? And the most important question is "what should I do?"

I watched an animation before, the story is like: there is a father is in top management position of a school. He has a wife and a daughter. But the sad thing is everything the wife and daughter ask him, is all about money. "Hey dear, I want to buy this, give me some money", "I know you are very nice to me, dad. My friend just bought a Gucci hand bag, can I have 1 also." The father just give money in order to maintain the relationship, the family. In order to win respect from his family, he decide to invest a new car. And he hope that by the new car he prove that he is able, he is rich and able to support they need, and his wife and daughter will see him differently and admire him.

Have you really spend sometime and think about yourself? The situation you in now. What is your plan? Or you have been just tired by all the work load you have? "Hey alex, get this done. Urgent." Everything seen urgent, everything seen cannot fail. But is that really true? No, nothing is more important than you. Even all the things need to be done by you.

The fastest and stupid solution for your problem is called SUICIDE. Your problem is just temporary. There is a way to work it out, to solve the problem. Problem is for you to solve not ignore or give up. When you ignore or give up on the problem, the problem is still there. Until you solved it.

When you don't know what to do, stop for a while, adjust your emotion. Spend sometime to love yourself first. Until you feel peace in your heart. The ask yourself, what is the problem. How to solve your problem.

You are a CEO and your company face a critical situation. And if you also panic, if you also give up. There won't have any hope in the company. If anything happen to you, who help you solve the problem?

You are a student, your result not so good. You don't feel like study it anymore. You feel that what ever you study, it will not have good result. Have you really think about it, "What is the problem?"

I like the coach of slam dunk. During a match when his team is losing, he said to his player: "is someone there still believe that we will win as what I believe?"

If yourself also give up, then who can help you? So speak to yourself to the mirror just like Evan did "I am handsome, rich, knowledgeable" today. If you don't give up, you find the road to overcome your problem.